It has become so normal for people to part their ways and get divorced. It surely is difficult to be with someone, be it like minded person or different. We are all humans and we tend to like and dislike things as and when we wish. We agree that your choices change every now and then. But we can’t just walk away from people we have spent a great deal of time. There’s a lot that changes with a single change in the relationship we share with your significant partner. There are many ways that can help us keep your marriage working. Couples must realize that people change over time. The person you married will not be the same certain years down the line. Their thoughts, ideas, goals and appearance change as well, it’s definitely normal that we can’t accept these changes in your partners. It is always normal for us to feel that, this is not the person we fell in love with. But, this is the time; we evolve too and learn to fall in love all over again with this new person we live with.
Life and relationships are a culmination of moments, sad and happy. We are exposed to many curves of life, those curves cause people to change their perception of life and relationships. Sometimes all you miss is the spark in your marriage, whilst you must understand the reason behind losing it. At times, you are so tied up with your work, social life that you forget to nurture your relationship/marriage. In any case, all you have to remember is that you made a promise to love your partner and be with them in happy and sad moments. Those sacred vows you take while accepting them your soulmate.
While younger couples don’t honor emotions and commitments they make. It’s easy for them to walk away and look for someone prettier or richer. The problem is you will always find yourself in the same situation, but with someone else this time if you don’t learn to cherish your love.
Money also is a factor on the list of reasons. In a long term relationship there will be times that finances are great and times when finances are low, but remember that you love each other through the good and the bad. No matter what you go through, together you can make it through anything. When times are hardest is when the strength of your marriage will surface. You will either band together or work as a team or like some couples, you will argue, blame and have resentment towards one another. The latter is why a lot of couples don't make it.
Last but not least, you have to take out time for each other. Take weekend getaways, go on dinner dates, bring the excitement back, take long walks together, go for a massage together or just watch a movie together. Spending quality time together is a key for having a marriage that lasts. The time you spend together allows you time to communicate with each other when you are both relaxed, which will allow for a more productive conversation to work out your disagreements.
A marriage doesn’t last anymore because people don’t will to sacrifice a part of themselves for someone else, and they don't want to put in the work that is necessary to have a lifelong friend, lover and companion.
While younger couples don’t honor emotions and commitments they make. It’s easy for them to walk away and look for someone prettier or richer. The problem is you will always find yourself in the same situation, but with someone else this time if you don’t learn to cherish your love.
Money also is a factor on the list of reasons. In a long term relationship there will be times that finances are great and times when finances are low, but remember that you love each other through the good and the bad. No matter what you go through, together you can make it through anything. When times are hardest is when the strength of your marriage will surface. You will either band together or work as a team or like some couples, you will argue, blame and have resentment towards one another. The latter is why a lot of couples don't make it.
Last but not least, you have to take out time for each other. Take weekend getaways, go on dinner dates, bring the excitement back, take long walks together, go for a massage together or just watch a movie together. Spending quality time together is a key for having a marriage that lasts. The time you spend together allows you time to communicate with each other when you are both relaxed, which will allow for a more productive conversation to work out your disagreements.
A marriage doesn’t last anymore because people don’t will to sacrifice a part of themselves for someone else, and they don't want to put in the work that is necessary to have a lifelong friend, lover and companion.
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