Over the past years it has been known that ladies have been the ones doing everything within their capability in order to look attractive. Most of the industries have been developing new cosmetics now and then just to enhance the beauties of our ladies. Designers in the clothing industry have experienced a boom in business due to high demand of latest fashion designs. Research shows that ladies spent more on cosmetics and clothing per year than they spent on food and recreation.
Something that gets me worried is that in the past few years men have joined in the race to be attractive. We have seen products like Nivea for men being introduced to the market and most men went for it. In the past men rarely applied oil to their skin especially on the hands and on the legs but recently we have seen men go hungry for a smooth skin, gone are the days when a rough skin was the one that could make any lady aroused on the first touch.
Due to this reason men have been trying everything possible to look attractive which among them include the following.
Hitting the gym
A good body is a sign of good health, and as the saying goes better health than wealth. Well,
most men would want to go to the gym just to gain that that physical superiority, that gigantic figure is an of assurance that ladies will feel timid in your presence thus will easily fall into your traps. Exercising regularly is good for ones health though one should avoid overdoing it which will make you oversize. Guys should lift weight to be attractive
Participate in sports
Participating in sports makes one attractive. Any kind of sports be it athletics, football, basketball or rugby adds on to your attractiveness, not only to ladies but also to men, young and old. Those who win in their respective sports are more attractive and will garner more support from the people. The likes football , are more attractive due to their active involvement in sports
Hairstyle
The type of the hairdo, also adds on to your attractiveness. As Tanya Ramirez puts it that the type of your hairstyle that you put on will determine the type of attention that you get.
Men therefore should try to keep their hair neat and controlled with a high polished finish.
Embracing in the public
Guys who embrace in the public are considered to be more attractive compared to those who do not show their intimate love to others for their when with their loved ones. Ladies love to be hugged in public just to show off and to feel that sense of belonging, they want to show that they have someone who cares for them. Though some communities believe that it’s not moral to embrace in public, it increases confidence among ladies, thus most of them would prefer to go against the donts
Type of work
The type of work or your area of specialization also adds on to your attractiveness. Professions such as lawyers, engineers, doctors, pilots and managers are the most attractive compared to those who work in the quarry and mines.
The military fellows are also very attractive thus guys will work hard to land into this professions.
Role models
Fellows who have admirable attributes are the most attractive in the society compared to guys who just wander around not caring how they impact on the society. Men therefore will work hard so as to impact on the society positively.
Flirt
Guys who talk with sexual attraction and in a playful manner are more attractive than guys who are just plain in their undertakings and would only wait during bed time so that they can talk sexual matters
Choose wise friends
As the saying goes “show me your friends and I’ll tell you who you are” . guys who associate with friends who are attractive in the society are also considered to be attractive, thus most guys would want to associate with the royals so as to gain the attractiveness. Birds of the same feathers fly together, thus when people see you with a certain group of people who are respected and have admirable qualities, their perception will automatically be that you are a good person.
Family background
Guys who come from backgrounds with lots of respect are more attractive compared to those who come from backgrounds that are sullied. Due to this reason most guys would do everything possible just to ensure that their backgrounds are not corrupt.
Stay Unadorned
Most guys try to be simple, they shun away from bragging too, much they do good and do not want to be recognized. In most cases such guys are considered to have admirable principles. Guys should not let what their right hand has done to be noticed by their left hand. This also adds on someone’s attractiveness.
Have multiple ladies.
Guys who date more than one lady are considered to be attractive compared to those guys whodate one lady or do not date at all
A man with his girlfriends
Ladies are normally jealous and that’s why they would prefer to date a married man than a guy who is single. Guys should therefore date more than one lady because the more ladies you have the more attractive you become.
Apply expensive colognes
Someone’s smell can motivate you to be with him or her or to automatically keep off or take an alternative route if it happens that you see them at a distance.
Due to this reason most guys are purchasing expensive colognes such as royal which goes for about kshs 2000. Your smell therefore adds on to your attractiveness, thus ensure that if your natural smell is not good enough you should supplement with some nice cologne . Guys should avoid too much sweat which makes them to stink.
Gather wealth
Guys should make enough money though legal means only. Guys who have money are just attractive and you can agree with me something which is not disputable. If you invest in assets such as land and cattle I can assure you that you will be attractive. If you are handsome and you don’t have enough cash to take chicks out for dinner this is not going to auger sound pleasing.
No girl can choose a handsome girl who doesn’t have money over a guy who is not handsome but rich. Guys work hard and amass wealth if you want to be attractive.
Being intelligent/bright
Guys who have quick cognitive capacity are considered to be more attractive compared to those who have less cognitive capacity or are slow learners. Getting high grades in class, answering questions posed by lectures in class and being able to solve very difficult calculus problems increases your attractiveness. Most ladies fall in love with guys who are considered to be intelligent and therefore what you should do is to make sure you understand the concepts in your area of specialization and be the best that you can be, this will make you attractive.
Be absent
Being good, telling good stories, being confident invite ladies for lunch dinner and suddenly disappear when you see that they are strongly attached to you. Some people realize your presence by your absence that is when you are gone that is when they realize you were actually existing. Guys can therefore enhance their attractiveness by not being too much available
Playing church instruments
If you are an expert in playing some types of instruments then you must be happy to know that you are more attractive than you think.
I realized that I was not attractive to my girlfriend when she told me that a lot of guys who play church instruments had approached her but she said no to all of them, at first I did not understand why she brought the issue of church instruments but later I came to realize that she was interested in those guys who play guitars and other church instruments. If you can play any instrument ensure that you do it perfect because it adds on to your attractiveness. Anyway they say the best place to get a good wife is in church and vice versa.
Expensive shoes
The type of shoes that you wear matters a lot, of recent guys have been buying the military boots which are very expensive and goes for about Kshs 5000.
It doesn’t matter a lot but ensure you wear a presentable shoe because it is the first thing that ladies would pay attention to since they are normally afraid to look you direct into your face.
Be selfish
If you are that guy who gives money or your belongings anyhow, ladies will find you attractive but only in the short run. People will only see you as attractive when you have money but when you have no money you end up lonely. Guys should therefore avoid spending too much on ladies here and there, you should rather invest in stocks an, shares and government bonds. Ladies who are aware that there is a future after today will find you attractive.
Be disciplined
Being discipline is attractive. I remember during my high school days I was the point of reference when it came to matters of discipline. From my experience I can say I was very attractive, even the female teachers found me attractive and sometimes when I was financially constrained and needed money for my upkeep I would ask them and they would not hesitate to give me. Discipline is associated with success in that when you are discipline you will have enough time to focus on your endeavors thus success is guaranteed, when you are successful people admire you because they find you attractive. Thus guys should try to be disciplined and automatically will find themselves attractive.
Your voice
The way you talk says a lot about you thus when talking to people ensure that you do not have that trembling voice, avoid being nervous. If you are nervous while talking to people ensure that you show some courage, let them see you as the superior and let them feel inferior. Yeah, this way some people find you attractive.
The above points are based on my own perception, you may agree or disagree with some of them or you can argue according to how you perceive things by using the comment form.
This is my original document and if by chance it appears somewhere else, it is coincidental
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