Ingredients for a successful relationship: something more than chasing a beautiful face
Guess what!
For the most times, I have had to ask myself again what it really means to be in a relationship. I am sure that you have done that at one time too. The internet is full of quotes like, “a relationship is not all about having a good-looking woman or man”. Other sources quote that, “a relationship is not about getting a rich partner”. You can probably add to the list.
The body does not remain forever young, at least, not as fresh and spotless as it were when a person is young. With this in mind, don’t just search for beautiful bodies. Money can’t buy everything so, don’t go for money when considering a relationship. In reality, many people look at the face and pocket before deciding anything about accepting or going into a relationship. Is there anything else in this world that can beat BEAUTY AND MONEY while considering going into relationship?
I’m glad you asked.
First of all us, every human being has a physical need that he or she wants to be satisfied. We eat, drink, sleep, exercise and get involved in intimate relationships to fulfill our physical demands. Besides this physical body, we also have souls that need something too. The necessities of the soul are emotional needs. It is very crucial to satisfy emotional needs too, otherwise you may face some psychological diseases like dispersion, anxiety, personality disorder and a nervous breakdown. Some of the most basic emotional requirements of humans are listed here for your ease.
· Goodwill from those people whom you love the most.
· Respect from people around you, especially from your partner.
· Unconditional support from your partner, friends and family members.
· Being heard by the society, including your friends and family.
· Freedom to express your feeling towards any situation.
· Freedom to pass productive criticism.
· Appreciation of your hard work.
· The gratitude of those people, whom you helped
· Acceptance, at least in your home if not in the entire society.
· Reasonable privacy once in a while.
It is not possible to buy these things, only the society or someone special can help you in this case. During childhood, the mother provides all the emotional needs of her kids, but it is not going to happen exactly the same way when they become adults. To satisfy all these emotional needs, you will need a partner who understands that emotional needs are important in a relationship, even much more than meeting the physical needs of a relationship.
What then are the ingredients you should look out for as you consider initiating a successful relationship? Some of them are as follows:
Who Cares About You?
Every person in this world, no matter how strong he or she is, requires the care of others. In any relationship care is a crucial factor. Care establishes the need for association. Where genuine care is lacking, association was not just necessary in the first place. Where care is lacking in a relationship, the future of the relationship will become bleak. Caring in a relationship involves both the physical and the emotional concern of each other. Couples should care about each other and tries their best to keep things going in a refreshing way.
Who Encourages You?
Encouragement is a very strong motivator. If you have someone in your life that encourages you in everything that you do, whether he/she fully agrees with you or not then, you can stand up to any task. There are lots of successful people who achieved big goals just because their partner kept encouraging them. You can also achieve something big with the right partner or you can make your partner to attain a high standard with your encouragement.
Who is Faithful to You?
A faithful partner is the one whose trust counts. Faithfulness is incomplete without honesty and integrity. You must look for a partner who is honest, truthful and sincere. If you can find such a partner, then, you are the richest person in the world.
Who Respects You?
Respect is one of the most important emotional needs of a person. A person with no respect from society can turn into a d-motivated looser even if he has the potential to change the world. Having a partner who respects your beliefs, decisions and personality are such a blessing of the Lord. Seek out a respectful person from a noble family. Trust me, it will be better for you.
Who Understands You
A partner who can understand your feelings, who can hear your unspoken words can change your world into a heaven. Spend your life with a person who supports your decision and gives honest comments about your thought. With this, there would be no need jumping to the society for reality checks. Most people live in denial and never make progress in their lives because they don’t get honest feedback from their activities.
Who Remains Patient with You?
It is very hard to live with a hot-headed and aggressive person. There are hundreds of couples who broke up just because of anger issues. Instead of finding an attractive face, it is better to search for a better tempered person, who can tolerate your mistakes and does not rush to conclusions.
If your partner has all these things, then you should not worry about his or her looks and bank balance. All these qualities are enough to build a strong and healthy relationship. Beauty fades and money can’t buy happiness. You should feel proud to have such a loving partner.
Some Relationship Tips
Relationship is a two-way street; you have to offer something in order to get something. To find a reliable partner who can provide you will all your physical and emotional necessities you also have to develop the traits described above. In the end, if someone wants to be with a rich and attractive partner and doesn’t bother about emotional requirements then it's his/her choice. Building and preserving a relationship is not a child’s play. You have to give serious thoughts about it. Don’t be impulsive; otherwise you will regret your rash decisions. Before entering into any relationship, set your priorities straight and then look for someone who believes in those priorities. With that, it will surely be a win-win situation for both of you. It is not bad to have an urge for a handsome, good looking and financially strong person, but you must analyze the situation from all angles before taking a first step. You are the only person who is responsible for your happiness. A loving partner can make you happy only when you choose one.
Guess what!
For the most times, I have had to ask myself again what it really means to be in a relationship. I am sure that you have done that at one time too. The internet is full of quotes like, “a relationship is not all about having a good-looking woman or man”. Other sources quote that, “a relationship is not about getting a rich partner”. You can probably add to the list.
The body does not remain forever young, at least, not as fresh and spotless as it were when a person is young. With this in mind, don’t just search for beautiful bodies. Money can’t buy everything so, don’t go for money when considering a relationship. In reality, many people look at the face and pocket before deciding anything about accepting or going into a relationship. Is there anything else in this world that can beat BEAUTY AND MONEY while considering going into relationship?
I’m glad you asked.
First of all us, every human being has a physical need that he or she wants to be satisfied. We eat, drink, sleep, exercise and get involved in intimate relationships to fulfill our physical demands. Besides this physical body, we also have souls that need something too. The necessities of the soul are emotional needs. It is very crucial to satisfy emotional needs too, otherwise you may face some psychological diseases like dispersion, anxiety, personality disorder and a nervous breakdown. Some of the most basic emotional requirements of humans are listed here for your ease.
· Respect from people around you, especially from your partner.
· Unconditional support from your partner, friends and family members.
· Being heard by the society, including your friends and family.
· Freedom to express your feeling towards any situation.
· Freedom to pass productive criticism.
· Appreciation of your hard work.
· The gratitude of those people, whom you helped
· Acceptance, at least in your home if not in the entire society.
· Reasonable privacy once in a while.
It is not possible to buy these things, only the society or someone special can help you in this case. During childhood, the mother provides all the emotional needs of her kids, but it is not going to happen exactly the same way when they become adults. To satisfy all these emotional needs, you will need a partner who understands that emotional needs are important in a relationship, even much more than meeting the physical needs of a relationship.
What then are the ingredients you should look out for as you consider initiating a successful relationship? Some of them are as follows:
Who Cares About You?
Every person in this world, no matter how strong he or she is, requires the care of others. In any relationship care is a crucial factor. Care establishes the need for association. Where genuine care is lacking, association was not just necessary in the first place. Where care is lacking in a relationship, the future of the relationship will become bleak. Caring in a relationship involves both the physical and the emotional concern of each other. Couples should care about each other and tries their best to keep things going in a refreshing way.
Who Encourages You?
Encouragement is a very strong motivator. If you have someone in your life that encourages you in everything that you do, whether he/she fully agrees with you or not then, you can stand up to any task. There are lots of successful people who achieved big goals just because their partner kept encouraging them. You can also achieve something big with the right partner or you can make your partner to attain a high standard with your encouragement.
Who is Faithful to You?
A faithful partner is the one whose trust counts. Faithfulness is incomplete without honesty and integrity. You must look for a partner who is honest, truthful and sincere. If you can find such a partner, then, you are the richest person in the world.
Who Respects You?
Respect is one of the most important emotional needs of a person. A person with no respect from society can turn into a d-motivated looser even if he has the potential to change the world. Having a partner who respects your beliefs, decisions and personality are such a blessing of the Lord. Seek out a respectful person from a noble family. Trust me, it will be better for you.
Who Understands You
A partner who can understand your feelings, who can hear your unspoken words can change your world into a heaven. Spend your life with a person who supports your decision and gives honest comments about your thought. With this, there would be no need jumping to the society for reality checks. Most people live in denial and never make progress in their lives because they don’t get honest feedback from their activities.
Who Remains Patient with You?
It is very hard to live with a hot-headed and aggressive person. There are hundreds of couples who broke up just because of anger issues. Instead of finding an attractive face, it is better to search for a better tempered person, who can tolerate your mistakes and does not rush to conclusions.
If your partner has all these things, then you should not worry about his or her looks and bank balance. All these qualities are enough to build a strong and healthy relationship. Beauty fades and money can’t buy happiness. You should feel proud to have such a loving partner.
Some Relationship Tips
Relationship is a two-way street; you have to offer something in order to get something. To find a reliable partner who can provide you will all your physical and emotional necessities you also have to develop the traits described above. In the end, if someone wants to be with a rich and attractive partner and doesn’t bother about emotional requirements then it's his/her choice. Building and preserving a relationship is not a child’s play. You have to give serious thoughts about it. Don’t be impulsive; otherwise you will regret your rash decisions. Before entering into any relationship, set your priorities straight and then look for someone who believes in those priorities. With that, it will surely be a win-win situation for both of you. It is not bad to have an urge for a handsome, good looking and financially strong person, but you must analyze the situation from all angles before taking a first step. You are the only person who is responsible for your happiness. A loving partner can make you happy only when you choose one.
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