Have you ever been attracted to a home built on true love and an exquisite touch of inward beauty? You would feel like modeling such a home. It is always a beauty to behold, a pattern to emulate and a standard to imitate. Happy couples come in all sizes, shapes, colors and ages. They can be about 30 years old or less, 75 years old or more. It does not matter how beautiful they look or how long they are living together. But one thing is sure when you see a couple in high spirit, it will not be difficult to know. Are you wondering why you and your partner are not able to find such happiness?
Just looking at other happy couple and longing for the same life is not going to help you. You have to put in some efforts into building a happy relationship. Input will certainly determine output. Here, I am unraveling some of those success secrets I discovered from various satisfied couples over the last few years.
They Build More Than A Relationship
Satisfied couple don’t just build a relationship, they build friendship. Frienship creates a stronger bond that holds a relationship. When couples grow friendship, relationship truly happens. Real friends can share everything with each other without any fear. When you treat your better half like a friend then you can have more fun. Your partner is not just a companion; he or she is a friend. On the table of friendship, relationship bonds are refreshed, strenghthened and grown.
They Have Better Communication
Satisfied couple are mentally exciting. They connect together and maintain a flow of communication. Proper communication of thoughts and feelings is vital to creating a better understanding in a relationship. How would your partner know about your needs if you don’t tell him in clear words? Yes, at a certain level you can expect your partner to understand your feeling but at the start of your relationship you should expect such anticipation from your partner. Keep things simple. Talk about your issue and discuss different possibilities to resolving a conflict. That’s the right way to lead a relationship into the right path.
They Remain Honest and Faithful
Happy couples have two most precious things in the world.These are, honesty and faithfulness. It is very hard to find honesty in this cruel world and when you find it, don’t squander it on other useless desires. It is better to live with an honest average looking person than with a deceitful exceptionally beautiful one. Moreover suspicion is the happiness killer. If you want to live happily, then, keep faith in your partner and give him all reasons to have faith in you. If you and your partner are honest and faithful to each other, then no one in this world can separate you.
They Keep Expectations Realistic
High expectations are not for those who are looking for long term stable relationships. It is not sinister to have some level of expectations from your partner, but you should not be extra demanding. High expectation seldom brings tears and sorrow because as human beings, we are bound to forget things and make mistakes. Know each other’s limits and keep the stakes at a realistic level.
They Are Daring
It is very hard to keep up with a tedious person, especially when you are a lively person. If you are not in a relationship, then try to find a person who is occasionally adventurous. An over-daring person can keep you worried all the time. If you are already in a relationship and want to have some excitement, then plan occasional tour to somewhere audacious. While doing something courageous together, you will definitely have some extra special moments with your partner that will strengthen your bond.
They Can Compromise
You can’t get everything that you want. That should be your motto from the very first day of your relationship. You have to realize that your partner can’t satisfy all your needs every time. Additionally, know that your relationship is not all about you, there is one more person in this relationship and you have to satisfy him too. Sometimes it is better to suppress your needs to fulfill your partner’s need. A healthy relationship is all about compromise.
They Adore Each Other
Happy couples certainly love each other and don’t hesitate to show their affection. It does not matter how old your relationship is, sometimes you should say something romantic to keep things alive. Older couples make their lives miserable when they think that they are not meant to be romantic. That's not true. Every person wants to hear some appreciation from his loved ones at any age.
They Are Social
Being a happy couple does not mean that you have to remain in each other’s arms like love birds. Real happy couples are very social and they enjoy the company of other people. They participate in social events and try their best to make others happy. Keep it in mind, if a person doesn’t love his family and friends, then, he is not going to love you for long. They love each other’s family and friends and treat them as their own.
They Know How To Eradicate Bitterness
Conflicts might creep in to active relationships, but happy couples know how to bounce back from a disagreement. They don’t try to avoid conflicts. They rather try to avoid hatred and heartbreak caused by any conflict. They discuss the matter in a friendly environment with an open mind. They know that it is good to accept one’s mistake and say sorry when necessary. Ego and arrogance are two enemies of a happy relationship, therefore, it is better to keep these two things as far as possible.
All these attributes of satisfied couples are the real reasons of their happiness. There are happy couples in every part of the world. A couple can choose to be happy irrespective of their culture, location and income level. Work at developing some of the above-mentioned traits and you will be amazed to see the results irrespective of your demographic and geographic situation.
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